This has proven more difficult than I thought it would. I guess I don't think I'm all that picky, I probably am. Everyone has an idea about what their perfect match or who the ideal date might be. Any reasonable person though will realize that no one is perfect. Any relationship will grow because of the things you have in common and stay interesting because of your differences. What would life be like without those bastards that think the toilet paper should come out from under the roll instead of over the top?

I'd like to find a nonsmoker who is height/weight proportionate. A little belly is OK, a big belly is a problem. Definitely be masculine. I don't act masculine....I am masculine. It would help if they have similar interest, but we can work on it. Be honest, open, and open minded. Someone not trapped by the unimportant things in life, like money, appearances, or showing up at a fashionable time. Drug and head game free. My friends are important to me. You need to like them. Someone who is a person before they are gay. Someone free from the needs of cigarettes and alcohol... yeah.. a beer here and there is OK, but you don't need one always in your hand. Someone who wiill give me a back rub. :-) Someone with responsible finances. You don't have to be rich, just responsible. Someone that doesn't leave me guessing if they are interested or not. I like to be rubbed on by someone I'm interested in. haha... I guess this confuses people whe I'm out, because I don't like to be touched by people unless I know ya :-)

That was the requirements. The rest is icing on the cake, or maybe just a wish list. Nothing is set in stone. I'd like to find someone furry with a little muscle and a goatee or mustache, but would go for a smooth guy if he had a big heart. I have a thing for horseshoe mustaches :-) I don't know why. Someone with a good sense of humor. Someone that can give a good back rub!! (Did I mention this?) I'm a sucker for a romantic man.

One day I hope to have a house on some land in the mountains with a garden, a pond to fish in, and a porch swing to relax in. I'm looking for someone to share that kinda of life with me.